How to monkey patch a gem

Is a gem you're using missing something small - something easy to fix?
You've made a patch and submitted it, but they just aren't responding?

I've found two ways to monkey patch it in place until they get around to pulling your patch in. They both have their pros and cons.

1) vendor the gem in place and hack

Do this if you give up on the gem people ever caring about your change (maybe the gem's been abandoned), if you're only using the gem in a single application; or the patch is only relevant to your one specific application; or if you want to put your changes into the repository for your application.

How:

1. rake gem:unpack into vendor/gems
2. sudo gem uninstall the gem from system if not in use for other apps
3. add the gem code into the repository
4. make your patch in place
5. update the version (eg use jeweller and bump version or hand-hack the gempsec and rename the directory)
6. add a config.gem declaration and depend on your version of the gem OR add a line to your Gemfile - and use vendored_at to point at it

Pros:

1. you can keep track of what changes you've made to the gem in the same place as your application directory - thus it's good for changes that are very specific to your own application-code (ie aren't really relevant or shareable with the wider community or your other apps)
2. it's pretty easy for a quick patch that you know is going to be pulled into the main gem shortly. It's easy to blow away the vendored version once the 'real' version is ready.

Cons:

1. if you're not using gem bundle yet, it's annoying to get your application to use your custom gem
2. it's not easily shareable between your applications if it's hidden in the vendor directory of only one - you may need some complicated extra-directory + symlinking to work...
3. if the gem is ever updated upstream, you have to do nasty things to get the new version (hint: before upgrading, make a patch via your source control... then blow away the gem directory... then download the new gem version... then reapply your patch). :P

2) fork the github repo

If the gem is on github, you can fork the gem there - this is especially good if you're going to reuse your patched gem in multiple applications, and/or make your patches available.

How:

1. Fork the gem OR create a github repo for the gem and push the code up there OR clone locally and create your own repo for it
2. Make your changes, and commit them to the repository as usual
3. In config.gem use :source => 'git::github.org/me/gemname' or gem bundle's Gemfile use :git => 'github.org/me/gemname' (or appropriate location)
4. optionally: be nice and make a pull-request to the original repo

Pros:

1. can easily pull changes from the upstream repository and integrate with your own patches
2. good for sharing amongst multiple of your own applications
3. makes your changes available to other developers that may be facing the same problem
4. good for when the main gem is not longer under development (or only sporadically updated... or has developers that don't agree with your changes)

Cons:

1. more work than a quick hack in vendor
2. must be tracked separately to your own code
3. you might not want to host outside of your own system (of course, nothing wrong with cloning then pushing to your own local repo, rather than github)

Conclusions?

We had a couple of the former and began to run into the issues stated. We discovered, of course, that quick hacks tend to turn into longer, more lasting changes so found that might as well have just done it 'properly' the first time and are now moving towards the latter solution - even setting up our own git-server for the gems we don't want to release back into the wild. YMMV :)